Loving Imperfections .............

   

Insecurities. We all have it in our blood.

• “They are better than me.”
• “he has better knowledge than I what I have ”
• “He is a more stable man.”
• “He has everything.”
• "He has got placed, then why not me."

We all struggle for this every day. Thinking about how other people’s lives are going. Comparing ourselves to others. Looking for something we don’t have but other people are enjoying.

One thing we must know about ourselves is that we are imperfect and we must accept that fact. We don’t have the perfect face of a model, paycheck of Bill Gates, the figure of a beauty queen, the height of a basketball player and a lot more imperfections.

But those imperfections make us real and unique. No matter how much we try to be perfect, we can never be.

Embrace it. Love it.

Let’s redefine perfection in our own terms. If we can’t accept our own imperfections, how can we accept other’s flaws and weaknesses as well.

Insecurities can only lead to depression. We should slash it in our lives. We can only be happy if we try to see perfection amidst imperfection.

If we are insecure, it shows in our attitude towards other people. We’ll always have the gut to explain ourselves and tend to create a facade that is not totally us. How can we see ourselves if we keep on comparing ourselves to others and instead of focusing on how to achieve our dreams, we waste our energy poking at other people.

It’s not easy. We are all struggling to fight for it every day. It can also be a part of our imperfections as well but it shouldn’t be an excuse not to fight for it.

Insecurities can eat us up. It decreases our self-confidence, it gives us self-doubt and most of all, it can be a hindrance to our success.

We may not all be perfect but we are unique and we should love it because it becomes our distinct qualities that others may hate or love but is part of who we are. We shouldn’t pay attention to what others would say towards us. We don’t have to please anyone but ourselves. Yes, their opinion matters but what should matter most is how we see ourselves because no one other than ourselves can believe on what we can really do. Let us love our imperfections and live a life with perfection.

Truth.. simplified... :)

True facts.... 
When you have more fun & fail, People comment you were not serious about your Life.
When you have no fun & fail, People comment you didn't succeed & didn't even enjoy.
When you have no fun & succeed, People comment, what's their when you can't have fun.
When you have fun & succeed, People comment you are arrogant.
However you live, whatever you do, People will comment, Better live the Life the way you want, not for the sake of People.
"Play your game, No matter what the commentators are talking, They are doing their Job, Are You?".....

Positive Mental Attitude

If we have our mental attitude under control you may control almost all other circumstances which affect our life, including our fears and worries of every nature whatsoever.
 Our mental attitude is the major factor which attracts people to you in a spirit of friendliness, or repels them, according to whether our attitude is positive or negative; and you are the only person who can determine which it shall be.
A person with a negative mental attitude can sell nothing. He may lake an order from someone who buys something from him, but no selling was done. How important a Mental attitude?

Mental Attitude Can Be Negative or Positive. Only a positive mental attitude pays off in the affairs of our everyday living, so let us see what it is, and how we may get it and apply it in the struggle for the

Mental attitude can be influenced and controlled by a number of factors, such as:
By a BURNING DESIRE for the attainment of a definite purpose based upon one or more of the nine basic motives which activate all human endeavor. Everyone Can Perform "Miracles"

From this chapter, I have learned that our mental attitude is very important as most of our success depends on Positive Mental attitude. Author has talked about the mental attitude and how one can           achieve success by having positive mental attitude.

Mental attitude controls, very largely, the space one occupies in life, the success one achieves, the friends one makes, and the contributions one makes to posterity. It would be no great overstatement of the truth if we said that mental attitude is EVERYTHING.

Loved  this topic.................. <3.......................................

The biggest wrong lesson that you learnt in your 1ST standard

I dont think there exists anyone on this earth who has done his first standard and doesn't know about the famous story of animalkind wherein a race was set between a fast and furious rabbit and a slow and steady tortoise. Neither me nor you know where the race was set? who set up the race between these 2 animals? for how long the race happened? but still each one of us have been taught either by our teachers or elders the moral of this race story as "SLOW AND STEADY WINS THE RACE" at one point or the other in our lives.

As soon as the race began, the rabbit sped miles ahead of the tortoise who was struggling hard to run carrying his heavy shell on his back. As rabbit saw that the tortoise was way behind him, he thought of taking a power nap before reaching the finishing line. The tortoise kept putting its efforts, surpassed the sleeping rabbit and reached the finishing red ribbon and won the race.

Folks! Only if the rabbit had not slept in between the race there would not have been even 0.000000000001% probability of tortoise winning the race by running faster than the rabbit. Was the rabbit foolish enough to sleep during a race? I am not sure about the answer but if the rabbit was really serious about winning the race it would not even have paused to take a deep breath. Logically a tortoise can never run as fast as a rabbit or even think of beating it in a running race. We all know this.

The biggest mistake made here was putting the strength of one animal against the weakness of the another animal in a challenge. Had the case been a race between 2 rabbits or between 2 turtles the moral would never have been 'slow and steady wins the race'. Inturn it would have been 'fast and furious wins the race'. Likewise friends beware! Most of us make the mistake of comparing our weaknesses with someone else's strengths and feel inferior or the other way ie, we start comparing our strengths with someone else's  weaknesses  and feel superior.

Albert Einstein rightly said "If you expected a fish to climb a tree, it would think of itself as a failure all its life", lets not make the same mistake and learn the wrong lesson which we did in our first standard. Rather lets get back on track to weaken our weaknesses and strengthen our strengths........

What I have Thought is....

It has been heard  that human mind flashes on 60,000 thoughts a day..
This is a real good experience of everyone which acts as a proof for the above statement. sometimes we will be speaking on some topic and when we are about to say something, we forget .. we feel it is there in the tip of our tongue and we are not succeeding in its expression. But we remember the same topic some other time..The fact is our subconcious mind stores any topic we think of . When your mind gives a thought to something, it remembers or stores the thoughts along with the situation around and when the same kind of situation occurs again the mind sends you the message which has been stored before. This is why so many times we feel many situations as though it happened the same way before.
 
And now why i'm talking about these thoughts is, today when i was listening to the business mathematics class, my mind is not on the lecture or problems it is exploring it in it's own thoughts. It actually went on thinking about my tomorrows plans the works that i should complete and the books i want  to read.. here my brain stuck .. book .. yes the book that i had read about three days ago from a famous author who is young and smart enough to tie his readers. Chetan Bhagat. yes the book that i had read was written by him. i don't know why he had wrote that book, where from he had get that thought of writing it. And the title of that book is "Revolution 2020 ". I don't know why he had kept that title for the book. I think may be to impress Mr Abduk Kalam "2020". The book has a story of three persons A hero , his Friend, A heroin a simple triangle love story, as if inspired from an old bollywood movie. Story has got all the elements of a super hit old Bollywood movie. 

He had spoke about many things in the book , Love , passion ,corruption, ambition , life, success. He had touched youths heart, made them feel boring at the end and finally ended the story with a failure of three persons lives. No character in the story has a successful life either the hero, his friend nor their Girl Friend. I took two days to read that book, it was very interesting at first , later it was good and coming to end it was completely boring one.  
Though the book was boring and not that much interesting again I had started reading another book from him "2 states".  I hope that this book has got something interesting. When i gone through the book i had found two interesting words that the world fond of one is Friendship and second is Love ( oh!! my heart is beating too fast ... ) .
First comes friendship ( it just my view that i'm going to share, don't take it personal, becoz i'm also a friend of you..!! :))
The most common relationship between people around the world - FRIENDSHIP.Few people take it as a synonym for 'just knowing a person' before considering the very meaning of the word.When someone asks u about a person u know..u just say "He/She is a friend of mine" without considering the fact that if u r really 'friends' or not.Not that there is anything wrong in that,but how many of us actually do justice to the so called 'friendship' ? I believe knowing someone doesn't make him/her ur friend.Friendship is more than just knowing someone.Its a competitive world,survival of the fittest.Most people believe in 'first me then others(includes so called friends)' theory.Ive seen people who have a group,who are together the whole time in clg/school but are not really friends.They are least bothered about what's happening with others-forget about helping each other out.Friendship is kind of a formality for them.... such a pity!



Love- " The eternal and immortal in the universe as people say" 
 i don't have words or time to talk or discuss about it. It doesn't mean that i'm against LOVE.

See how crazy my mind is , where it had started and where it lead me, our thoughts have no end.

And now my immediate thought is to end the topic. 

"Once in a while, it hits people, that they don't have to experience the world, in the way they have been told to" ...

Life- "............." how will you describe..?

hii friends, 

     have you ever wondered or surprised of how you are? where you are? What is the source of your happiness, emotions? Have you ever thought of what is going on around you? 

Just give a break to your busy life and around you... Admire the beauty, Admire the different colors... Imagine if they were not there how would things be??? Look at your monitor screen... Look at the different colors on it... look around your room... look at the paint of your wall... The curtains covering your window... The sheet covering your bed... The posters in your room... The painting decorating your wall... Look how beautiful they are... Ever wondered of what it is made of??? Ever wondered who made it??? Ever wondered how colorful they are??? Ever wondered how much time would have been spent to make them??? All of them are made of so many different things, with different colors... Forget all these and just look at yourself in the mirror... The greatest creation ALMIGHTY... The Human Body...

Ever wondered hoe beautiful it is??? Look at the systematic arrangement of each part of your body... All of us have the same parts arranged in the same order yet we look so different from each other... Why do you have moles in your body??? Why does your eyebrow only grows to a certain extent and why not cover the entire face??? I know friends, you might give a scientific explanation to it...

Instead enjoy it... Admire the beauty and wonder how beautiful it is... Oh!!! If I go on, then there is so much to say... Never say life is boring... Just Look around you and enjoy the things around you and wonder about it...  You'll see that life is not only interesting  but also filled with colors and surprises... Admire the things around you and enjoy LIFE!!! LIFE is only ONCE so ENJOY it to the FULLEST...

Do You Know Why?

I Don't know Why,
But i Just wanna touch the Sky.

I Don't know Why,
But i Just wanna Fly High.

I Don't know Why,
Sometime's my pain itself seems to Cry.

I Don't know Why,
But my tears appear to Dry.

I Don't Why,
I Fail but i still get up and try.

I Don't know Why,
But i believe in the attitude of never Die.

I Don't know Why,
But i just cant stand a Lie.

Now i Just know why,
Cos my Dreams are too High,
That shall never Die,
Nor can anyone buy but i will always try an one day shall fly high over the rainbow an touch the sky,Till then even death wont stand close By cos my Dreams and Visions are just too high.
And this is my strongest Why,Trust me i really woudn't Lie.!!